
Emergency Preparedness for Empty Nesters: What Changes When It's Just the Two of You
Cynthia KolfOur son, although living in our home, is a working adult who takes care of his own needs. We still enjoy occasional meals together and he loves helping me with puzzles—especially when the power goes out during hurricanes!
Still, I found myself buying emergency supplies like I was feeding a family of three every day. It took a power outage and way too much leftover food to realize: preparedness changes when your daily reality is mostly just the two of you.

Less Food, More Medicine
The biggest shift? You need less food but more medical supplies.
Instead of storing massive quantities of everything, I now focus on:
- Smaller portions - Two people don't need a 25-pound bag of rice
- Higher quality - Since we're buying less, we can afford better ingredients
- More variety - Keeping several smaller containers instead of one giant bucket prevents boredom
But those medication needs? They're growing. Emergency prescription refills, blood pressure monitors, and comfortable seating during outages weren't on my radar when I was chasing my young son around.
Your Body Changes, Your Prep Should Too
At 72, I can't lift what I used to. Neither can my husband. Our emergency supplies need to reflect that reality.
What we changed:
- Smaller water containers - Multiple 1-gallon jugs instead of heavy 5-gallon buckets
- Accessible storage - Everything we use regularly at eye level or lower
- Comfortable emergency gear - Good pillows, supportive chairs, proper lighting for reading
The reality check: If you can't easily access your emergency supplies on a good day, you definitely can't during a crisis.
Focus on Comfort, Not Just Survival
When you're older, comfort becomes crucial for getting through emergencies.
Young families worry about keeping kids entertained. Empty nesters need to think about:
- Joint pain management during storms (comfortable seating, heating pads that work without electricity)
- Sleep quality when stressed (good pillows, familiar blankets)
- Mental health during isolation (books, puzzles, and yes - really good coffee)
The Sweet Spot: Prepared But Not Overwhelming
Here's what I wish someone had told me years ago: Your emergency prep should make life easier, not more stressful.
Our current approach:
- Two weeks' worth of food and water (with a bit extra for variety)
- Quality over quantity - things we actually enjoy eating
- Integration with daily life - supplies we use and rotate regularly
- Health-focused - more emphasis on medications, first aid, and comfort items, plus choosing healthy foods over junk food for our emergency supplies

What Empty Nesters Actually Need
Instead of massive food storage:
- Two weeks of meals you'd actually want to eat (with extras for variety)
- Extra coffee, tea, or whatever keeps you sane
- Comfort foods that lift your spirits
Instead of tactical gear:
- Battery-powered lanterns (not harsh flashlights)
- Comfortable seating options
- Entertainment that doesn't need electricity
Instead of generic first aid:
- Your specific medications with extra refills
- Items for your health conditions
- Comfort items for aches and pains
The Bottom Line
Empty nest preparedness isn't about doing less - it's about doing different.
You're not preparing for chaos with kids underfoot. You're preparing to maintain comfort, health, and peace of mind during life's unexpected moments.
Start here: Look at your current emergency supplies. Ask yourself: "Can I easily access this? Would I actually use this? Does this serve my life as it is now, not as it was 20 years ago?"
Then adjust accordingly. Your prep should grow up with you.
Next week, I'm sharing my complete approach to creating a beautiful emergency pantry that works for real life (not just disasters). If you're ready to rethink your preparedness approach, you won't want to miss it.
What's your biggest empty nester preparedness challenge? I'd love to hear from you in the comments or over on Instagram @sunshinepreppers.